Observance of table setting etiquette first of all indicates a good attitude of the host to guests. However, recently you can meet a properly set table only at various kinds of official events, banquets or receptions. You need to please your loved ones on ordinary days, creating a festive atmosphere with the help of colorful design. In this article we will talk about the basic rules of table setting, about various directions and interesting ways of decorating.
Table etiquette or how to set the table
If you were invited to a dinner party for the first time, the number of cutlery and their order may be confusing. A well-organized holiday dinner is the proper serving of appliances on the table, compliance with table etiquette and the design appropriate to the event. To learn how to use cutlery correctly, you need to understand a few points.
Rule number 1: forks, spoons, knives are laid out in the order of serving the dishes (snacks, soup, meat or fish, fruits, dessert). Each item on the table fulfills its role.
General table setting rules include the following arrangement of dishes:
- a snack plate is placed in front of the guest;
- left a cake plate or a paper napkin with additional devices;
- on the right are knives and spoons, and on the left are forks;
- wine glasses and glasses, as well as dessert devices, are placed in front of the main plate;
- a napkin lies on a snack plate.
Rule number 2: use the serving items for the intended purpose. Devices located on the right side are taken and held in the right hand while eating, and those that are on the left with the left hand.
Of particular note is the question of how to use a knife. It is necessary that the end of the handle rests on the palm of the right hand, the thumb and middle fingers grasp the base of the knife from the side, and the index one lies on the surface of the handle. So it will be more convenient for you to cut off the desired piece of meat or fish, and you will not have to blush in front of strangers.
Rule number 3: the design of the table involves the use of all kinds of decorative elements: a white ironed tablecloth, lace napkins, colorful paths and fragrant flowers.
To better understand the principle of table etiquette, we recommend that you familiarize yourself with the video material presented below. You will learn a lot of useful and forever forget about the problem of improper use of cutlery.
On the video: serving and serving rules.
Scheme and sequence
There is no one true option for table setting, because in each country different traditions are adopted regarding this issue. Much also depends on the menu, the number of dishes and their orientation. Do not forget that, depending on the time of day, the design of the kitchen or dining room can vary greatly.
It is customary to set the table according to the following order: tablecloth, dishes and cutlery, wine glasses, glasses, glasses, napkins, decor.
Let's start with the tablecloth - it should be perfectly ironed and match the nature of the event. So, for a dinner party models of neutral shades are suitable, and for Sunday tomorrow there is nothing better in the family circle than a bright tablecloth and napkins with unusual patterns. The average length of this product is 25 cm. This indicator is far from random - an excessively large descent of the tablecloth will look sloppy, and a small one looks awkward.
The smoothed cloth should cover the entire surface, and the corners should fall opposite the legs of the table, evenly covering them.
Choose the right size tablecloth
The following is the arrangement of dishes and appliances. In a number of European countries, and in Russia too, it is customary to first exhibit porcelain and glass plates, saucers, wine glasses and glasses. When setting the table, it is important to consider that all objects will change, depending on the presentation of the dishes. That is why it is better to place dishes and cutlery at a distance of 1 cm from each other, starting from the edge of the table.
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Tablecloth and track selection and placement
Every housewife has an elegant white tablecloth in the closet. However, you should not be limited to only one model, now in stores a wide selection of products of various sizes, colors and styles is presented. Tablecloths are suitable for rectangular tables 50 cm longer than the table top, and for round or oval tables - 100 cm wider than the diameter of the table.
Designers insist that the color of the tablecloth is combined with the shade of the curtains and the overall style of the rooms. The main thing is to smooth the fabric well, and the choice of colors depends only on the preferences of the residents of the house. You can lay a traditional beige or white or choose a more non-standard option.
Another new way to decorate the table is the use of plain paths and side-by-side. You can see examples of such decoration in the photo below.
Plate layout
On napkins or special paths, first put deep, wooden or salad plates. Nearby are tea appliances and dishes for desserts. The distance from the edge of the table to the dishes should be about 1.5-2 cm. It is also recommended to put a paper napkin under the snack plate so that it does not slip on the tablecloth.
Next in order is the layout of the cutlery. According to the rules of etiquette, they are laid out according to the number of changes in dishes, put the back to the table. To the right are spoons and knives, to the left are forks. In most cases, each person has one set of devices.
If you want to impress your guests, you can additionally serve the table with bright glasses, glasses, special forks, teaspoons and dessert spoons.
Serving glasses, glasses, wine glasses
Glasses go behind the plates - they are arranged from larger to smaller. The choice of items depends on the preferences of the guests regarding certain drinks. It can be glasses for water, wine glasses for white or red wine, glasses for juice, as well as glasses for strong drinks.
Glasses are located on the right, glasses on the left, forming an even line. It is allowed to arrange dishes and appliances in two rows with a large number of participants in the event.
Before serving glasses on the table, make sure the dishes are clean. All items must be thoroughly washed, wiped with a towel and make sure that there are no chips or other defects.
Selection and serving of napkins
The classic table setting involves the use of plain napkins of neutral shades.As in the case with the arrangement of cutlery, there are no clear rules for the location of napkins. They can be beautifully folded next to the snack plate (intended for bread, tartlets and salads) or put in a glass for water, decorated with decorative rings and ribbons.
If you set the table for dinner, just lay the napkins to the side of each plate, as shown below.
On the video: how to set the table.
Table decor (finishing)
A great option for table decor is a tablecloth made of synthetic material. This solution is suitable for home gatherings, and for a festive dinner, the main thing is to choose the right color. It is easy to take care of such a tablecloth - it does not crumple, does not wear out and its original appearance remains for a long time. As an addition, they use fabric napkins, glass holders, lace tracks.
To make the living room interior elegant, cozy and unforgettable, put on the table a bouquet of fresh flowers, a vase of fruit, an old sugar bowl and crystal glasses.
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Cutlery in a modern style is distinguished by a variety of shapes, shades and its unique functional features.
Types of Serving
The decoration of the table may vary, depending on the time of day and the nature of the festive dinner. In this case, allocate banquet, buffet, tea and coffee serving. However, certain differences exist. Breakfast involves a minimum number of dishes for table setting, and during dinner there is always a large number of dishes and appliances on the table.
For breakfast (+ Sunday breakfast)
This is the easiest type of table setting. First of all, snack plates are placed, then cups, glasses and small saucers. A teaspoon is placed on top of the latter. If your family members use egg racks or oil cups, be sure to take a teaspoon. A deep bowl is placed on the snack plate (for cereal or cereal).
Sunday breakfast can not be imagined without tea, which is why in the center there was a coffee pot or teapot.
You can decorate the table with the help of flowers, unusual napkins and various decorative elements. Family Sunday breakfasts are becoming a good tradition in many homes, they bring close relatives with each other. The key to setting the table for breakfast is to create a good mood and convenience in the process of eating.
Dining room
There are several types of table setting for dinner. It all depends on the number of dishes and their nature. Cover the table with a white tablecloth, put one flat and one deep plate (for soup or salad). If the menu contains dishes that cannot be eaten from common dishes, add a snack plate. Arrange the cutlery according to etiquette. Beautifully folded napkins are perfect for decorating the table.
A distinctive feature of table setting for dinner is the installation of a salt shaker and other items for spices and seasonings.
Full evening
You can set the table not only for family members, relatives or friends, but also for unfamiliar guests. Pre-serving in accordance with all the canons is the key to the success of any dinner party, because everyone should be convenient and comfortable. The table decor creates a special atmosphere that is conducive to soulful conversations, wonderful memories and plans for the future.
To make the holiday a success, it is necessary to observe the following rules of table etiquette:
- Perfectly clean ironed tablecloth. It is desirable that the product was made of a dense fabric (this will avoid the ringing of dishes when dropped and protect the surface from spilled liquid).
- To design a festive table, it is not acceptable to use dishes and devices of different colors. Give preference to a monophonic option from one set. All decor elements (vases, coasters, napkin rings) should shine from cleanliness, the same applies to dishes.
- It is forbidden to serve clogged bottles with champagne or wine on the table. All alcoholic drinks are served in open bottles, after which they are bottled in wine glasses. Next to the glasses, glasses is placed one tissue napkin.
Banquet
Banquet serving is not much different from a full evening, however there are some features of this type of decoration. So, shallow plates are placed at a distance of 1 cm from each other, starting from the center, first on one side, then on the other. They must be clearly opposite one another. On these plates are eateries and pie saucers. The next stage is the arrangement of cutlery at a distance of 0.5 cm from a shallow plate.
It is wrong to assume that in ordinary life you can not bother, and all the difficulties of decoration are used exclusively for holidays. Psychologists say that the mood and taste perception of food depends on the appearance of the dish and the table as a whole.
Table setting at home differs from the solemn smaller number of appliances and decor details.
- Take on board that the base plates should be required. Using them, you will avoid contamination of the tablecloth. Agree that sometimes it is very difficult to remove stains from borsch from it.
- It is not recommended to replace the tablecloth with oilcloth. To make the table look “smart”, sometimes it is enough to lay a checkered cloth on it. Of course, everything should look harmonious and the tablecloth should be combined with the overall interior of the kitchen.
- If your menu has a first course, then the presence of deep plates is required. It’s much easier to go around with a saucepan and pour broth on everyone than rush around with plates.
- A bowl for the side dish should be under the deep plate.
- In order not to constantly run after the forks and spoons, provide them in the right amount in advance.
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Why table setting is needed
Everyone will agree that it is much nicer to eat at a chicly served table. If everything is properly organized, then a daily meal turns into a holiday.
It is not necessary to cook gourmet dishes, you can use the usual inexpensive products. The very idea of \u200b\u200bdecorating the dining table is important.
Serving Planning for Specific Meals
Introduce new traditions to your family. Due to the lack of time in the modern world, not every family can afford joint dinners. In this case, you can limit yourself to one general meal, which will take place in the evening.
Not only for a festive meal, but also for a simple dinner, you can originally arrange a serving. Children will be happy to help you with this, as a rule, they are very fond of arranging plates and laying out napkins.
At this table you can chat with all family members. The atmosphere of comfort is conducive to confidential conversations, everyone can talk about their problems or achievements. Such a tradition will bring a piece of joy into everyday life. After everyone gets used to gathering at home for dinner, you can start introducing weekend fees into family traditions.
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Table Setting Rules
- You need to use the same devices.
- Each dish should have its own serving.
- When arranging objects, it is necessary to take into account that about 80 cm of space should be allocated for each person. This condition will make guests feel comfortable.
- Plates are placed in the middle of the allocated space, at a distance of two cm from the edge.
- When planning the serving of several dishes, deep dishes are set flat.
- At a distance of 10 cm to the left of the person plates are placed for sweets or bread.
- Spoons, forks and knives are placed with the tip up, on the right - knives, on the left - forks. If dessert is provided, then the soup spoon is placed above the plate.
- Glasses and glasses must be placed on the right. If alcohol and water are served at the same time, then the container that should be combined with the first dish is put closer.
- All dishes should be clean without stains and streaks. Before serving, wipe it with a dry towel.
How to choose the right tablecloth
A required attribute is a tablecloth. It can be both for everyday use, and for solemn. What recommendations do experts give when choosing a tablecloth?
- for the banquet, a tablecloth made of natural fabrics, preferably white, is used;
- for everyday dinner or lunch, you can use the acrylic attribute, it should fit the shape of the table;
- it is important that the tablecloth is a suitable length, it should cover the entire surface, and the edges should hang down by 20-25 cm.
Required condition!!! Any tablecloth should be clean. Therefore, you need to have several options available.
Plate layout
So, the tablecloth is laid out. Now you need to arrange the plates. The scheme is very simple. At the very center should be a decorative plate, it should not be too close to the edge. A plate for snacks is placed on it. If the menu has liquid dishes, then a deep container is also placed on a decorative plate. It is important to note that when serving the soup puree, a soup plate is served, and when serving the broth, you need to serve a cup. A plate for bread is placed to the left of the decorative one.
Instrument Location
Serving provides a certain arrangement of all devices. Everything must comply with etiquette:
- devices should be placed on the sides of the plates, in some cases they are placed on top;
- to the left of the main plate should be forks;
- the knives are placed on the right, their blades should be directed to the plate;
- above the plate should be a spoon for soup;
- a dessert spoon is placed on the right side, it should enclose a series of knives.
Important!!! The devices that will be used first should be closest to the plate. Devices for first courses should be the farthest. Keep in mind that all devices must be freely available for use.
How to choose glasses
For serving a festive table, it is very important to choose the right glasses. For each drink a certain type of wine glasses or glasses is provided.
For red wines, cognac and brandy use "pot-bellied" glasses. And for wines from white varieties use small glasses. The tallest or narrowest wine glasses are for champagne. For juices and water glasses are served that are designed for cocktails.
Using wipes
How to set a table beautifully? One of the most important elements of decoration during the design of any holiday or banquet are napkins. A lot of techniques have been invented, following which you can create an exquisite and unusual composition from them. When choosing wipes, you need to pay attention to color. You can buy napkins of the same color with holiday candles.
Wipes should be folded so that after unfolding they do not look too wrinkled. This decoration is placed on a plate for snacks. Using figures from napkins, you can make your table very stylish.
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Dinner table setting
- Festive dinner with family. Beautiful candles and plates are laid out on the table, wine and light snacks are stocked. Later you can serve a hot meal, dessert and fruit. Remove the glasses, and instead place the cups and saucers.
- How to set the table for a romantic dinner? A small table is set, at which two people sit opposite each other. Candles and flowers are required. A special fleur of romantic mood will add a tablecloth of dark tone.
- For a theme dinner. You can serve dishes made from products that are grown in your country house. The table is decorated with compositions of vegetables. All dishes are simple, made from natural products.
- For dinner with a friend. No extra details. A delicate tablecloth, a minimum number of appliances, light dishes. Perhaps slicing or seafood.
- Dinner for friends. Friends come to visit for simple informal communication. Therefore, forget about the solemnity, everything should be simple. But of course, cook some delicious dishes
How to set a table for a children's holiday?
- To make children feel like adults, cover them with a separate table.
- It is necessary to maintain the design in one gamut. Better if you pick up any cartoon theme. She must be present in everything.
- Disposable tableware is a real find for parents who need to organize a children's holiday. Just do not think that we are talking about simple disposable plates. In stores you can buy a very beautiful dishes made of durable plastic or special cardboard. Such dishes are very practical, because they do not beat. She is very beautiful, so the kids will be delighted with her.
- Do not cook a variety of salads and meat dishes. This is a children's holiday, and children do not like to eat such a party. Surprise them with beautiful buffet snacks, this is exactly what they will like.
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Benefits of Proper Table Setting
If your family gets used to eating in a cozy and beautiful environment, then the food will be a real pleasure. Children will grow culturally, knowing the place of each item on the table. Evening gatherings at a beautifully laid table will unite your family. And this family tradition will be passed down from generation to generation.
Table setting at home is a whole code of etiquette. Each mistress should be able to maneuver in this creative sea and distinguish aesthetic nuances. Not everyone can afford to have a butler on their personal staff. Therefore, we must learn to host guests ourselves.
Holidays differ in the level of public perception of this event. Let's start with small household joys: name day, homeland, christening, dates from family history. Table setting at home depends on the number of guests.
Family celebration
Such events may include both a large number of guests and a quiet family dinner. If you plan to arrange just tea gatherings, notify the guests in advance. The invitation "for tea" implies the absence of a strict dress code.
The hostess is the heroine of the festive table, regardless of who is the hero of the occasion. On the table you can lay a bright colored tablecloth. From personal devices, you can arrange only plates for pies and dessert accessories.
The hostess, sitting at the head of the table, pours tea and passes it to guests. In the center you can serve various desserts: berries and fruits, cakes, pastries, cookies or sweets. Jars with jam and honey are also placed in the middle.
The table is decorated with fresh flowers. You can put in the middle a small low vase with a bouquet or a flower arrangement on a wide dish. The original decoration of the tea table is a traditional samovar. Do not forget about the bright painted paper napkins. From alcohol, you can offer guests dessert wine or liquor.
Children holidays
Children have a lot of events that can be celebrated: Birthday, first time in first grade, sports achievements - you can’t list everything. How to please the youngest households?
Setting a children's table at home implies a maximum of comfort and a minimum of fettering traditions. Children must laugh! Offer them many colors and sweets.
Everyone loves sweets. Therefore, a children's table is better to make dessert. Everything is very similar to tea gatherings. Just do not offer hot drinks. It is better to serve the table with juices or compotes.
For the children's table, you can cook bright colored jellies. Fruits should not be laid out in large crystal vases. You can make individual chocolate baskets and put assorted berries and fruit there: strawberries, apricots, grapes, raspberries, plums. Do not forget about cakes and sweets!
Daily beauty
If you want your household to be energized daily and in a good mood, please them with gastronomic delights. Everyday table setting for dinner, lunch and breakfast is not much different from a democratic tea party. Only individual devices will be more. For breakfast, it is perfectly acceptable to set the table "for tea". But a family lunch or dinner is already a small event.
The tablecloth must be replaced with a multi-colored on a plain. Ideally, a snow-white starchy cloth. The tablecloth for dinner can be decorated with an ornament in the form of a wide strip along the edge.
The dining tablecloth should not hang more than 50-60 centimeters from the edge of the table. For lunch and dinner, linen napkins can be provided for each appliance. If you practice traditional family dinners, you can use table accessories such as napkin rings, silver and gold plated appliances.
Main dishes are placed in the middle of the table. You can immediately put cold snacks and hot. If the dinner is gala, then first an aperitif and appetizers are served, then the hostess's crown dish.
The mistress is the queen of dinner. She must know with all the nuances how to properly set the table for dinner or for her birthday. On an additional table place tureens and deep plates. Only small wide plates, cutlery, glasses and glasses are personally placed on the table. The hostess pours a hot dish and passes it to households.
This traditional option can be replaced by a more democratic one: put a tureen in the middle of the table, and deep plates - personally. Everyone serves himself.
Do not forget to decorate the dining table with fresh flowers. From alcoholic beverages, table wine, sherry, and vodka can be offered. Cognac at dinner do not drink. Port and beer are also excluded. Such drinks can be served with afternoon coffee or a pleasant conversation with fireplace .
Dinner is served as strictly as lunch. Only fresh flowers can be replaced candles in high candlesticks . Instead of crystal, you can put silver utensils on the table: common dishes, gravy boats, salad bowls. Evening is a time of soft shadows. Table setting should be consistent.
Be sure to place paper napkins on the table. But do not forget about linen! Guests unfold a napkin and lay on their lap.
If the wedding table setting at home is very dense, do not put fresh flowers. Better decorate garlands the room. At the wedding, it is advisable to invite staff who will change dishes. It is difficult for the mistress to keep track of all the guests.
Whatever celebration would be celebrated in your house, remember: the main thing is a good mood and a smile!